Resources

Websites

www.cavemania.com:Humorous site about male and female differences.

www.comamas.com: Support for stepmoms and moms working together

www.fathersforum.com:  Support for fathers

www.happilymarriedwithkids.com Forms section has CoupleVision Plan.

www.parentsplace.com: Support for parents

www.smartmarriages.com: Research and conference site for committed longterm marriages

www.divorcebusting.com: Good if a marriage is in serious trouble

www.emdria.org: EMDR International Association, Information about EMDR

 

References

Books and Articles

Anderson, Judith Z., & White, Geoffry. An empirical investigation of interaction and relationship patterns in functional and dysfunctional nuclear families and stepfamilies. Family Process, 25, 407-422, 1989.

Bader, Ellyn and Peter T. Pearson. In Quest of the Mythical Mate: a Developmental approach to Diagnosis and treatment in couples Therapy Brunner-Routledge,1988.

Bach, George Robert. The Intimate Enemy: How to Fight Fair In Love and Marriage. William Morrow & Co., 1969.

*Bakos, Susan Crain. “Beyond the G Spot.” In Redbook Magazine. 2001.

Barrett, Nina. I Wish Someone Had Told Me: A Realistic Guide To Early Motherhood. Academy Chicago Pub., 1997.

*Brown, Emily M. Patterns Of Infidelity And Their Treatment, 2nd ed. Brunner—Routledge, 2001.

*Chapman, Gary. The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate. Northfield Publications, 1992.

*Chopra, Deepak, The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success: A Practical Guide to the Fulfillment of Your Dreams. Amber—Allen Pub., 1995.

*Covey, Stephen. How to Develop a Family Mission Statement. AudioCassette. Covey Leadership Center, 1996.

*Covey, Steven and Sandra Merrill Covey. The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families: Building a Beautiful Family Culture in a Turbulent World. Golden Books Pub. Co., 1997.

Crittenden, Ann. The Price of Motherhood: Why the Most Important Job in the World is Still the Least Valued. Owl Books, 2002.

Crittenden, Danielle. What Our Mothers Didn’t Tell Us: Why Happiness Eludes the Modern Woman. Touchstone Books, 2000.

Cusk, Rachel. A Life’s Work: On Becoming a Mother. Picador, 2002.

*Davis, Michele Weiner. The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage. Simon & Schuster Adult Publishing Group, 2001.

*Davis, Michele Weiner. The Sex-Starved Marriage: A Couple's Guide to Boosting Their Marriage Libido. Simon & Schuster Adult Publishing Group, 2003.

Doherty, William J. Take Back your Marriage: Sticking Together in aWorld That Pulls Us Apart Guilford Publications, 2001

Ferber, Richard MD. Solve Your Child’s Sleep Problem. Fireside, 1986.

Glass, Shirley P., Ph.D. Not just Friends The Free Press, 2003.

Godek, Gregory J.P. 1001 Ways To Be Romantic. Sourcebooks Trade, 1999.

*Gottman, John Mordechai and Nan Silver. Seven Principles to Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert. Crown Publishing Group, 2000.

*Hendrix, Harville. Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples. Owl Books, 2001.

*Katie, Byron and Stephen Mitchell. Loving What Is: Four Questions That Can Change Your Life. Harmony Books, 2002.

*Lerner, Harriet. The Mother Dance: How Children Change Your Life. Perennial, 1999.

Lew, Amy and Betty Lou Bettner. Raising Kids Who Can: Use Good Judgement Assume Responsibility Communicate Effectively Respect Self & Others Cooperate Develop Self Esteem & Enjoy Life. Connexions Press, 1998.

Maushart, Susan. The Mask of Motherhood. Penguin Books, 1999.

*Nelsen, Jane and Cheryl Erwin and Roslyn Duffy. Positive Discipline for Preschoolers, Age Three to Six: For Their Early Years - Raising Children Who Are Responsible, Respectful and Resourceful. Crown Publishing Group, 1998.

*Nelson, Jane. Positive Discipline. Crown Publishing Group, 2003.

*Oxhorn-Ringwood, Lynne and Marjorie Vego-Krausz and Louise Oxhorn. Stepwives: 10 Steps to Help Ex-wives and Stepmothers End the Struggle and Put the Kids First. Fireside, 2002.

*Pantley, Elizabeth. The No-Cry Sleep Solution: Gentle Ways to Help Your Baby Sleep Through the Night. McGraw-Hill Companies, 2002.

Pittman, Frank. Private Lies: Infidelity and the Betrayal of Intimacy. W.W. Norton & Co., 1990.

Rapoport, Elizabeth. “How many Working Fathers Does It Take to Screw in a Lightbulb?” In Mothers Who Think: Tales of Real Life Parenthood, Camille Peri and Kate Moses, ed. Washington Square Press, 2000.

Schnarch, David. Passionate Marriage. W.W. Norton & Company, New York: 1997.

Sheras, Peter L. and Phyllis R. Koch-Sheras. Couple Power Therapy: Building Commitment, Cooperation, Communication, And Community in Relationships, American Psychological Association, 2005.

Shapiro, Francine. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing: Basic Principles, Protocols, and Procedures, 2nd ed. The Guildord Press, New York: 2001.

*Spring, Janis. After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful. HarperCollins, 1997.

Webb, Michael. The RoMANtic's Guide: Hundreds of Creative Tips for a Lifetime of Love. Hyperion Press, 2000.

Weiner-Davis, Michele. Divorce Busting: A Step-By-Step Approach to Making Your Marriage Loving Again. Simon & Schuster Adult Publishing Group, 1993.

Weiner-Davis, Michele. How to Change your Life and Everyone In It. Simon & Schuster Adult Publishing Group, 1996.

Wolf, Naomi. Misconceptions: Truth, Lies, and the Unexpected on the Journey to Motherhood. Bantam Doubleday Dell Publishing Group, 2003.

 

Video

“The Method: Baby & Mom Postnatal Yoga.”. Video. Cal Pozo and Gurmukh Kaur Khalsa, 2001.

"Bringing Baby Home" Video and workshops for emotion coaching parents of new baby.

 

 

   

 

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